Wednesday, September 17

A few setbacks today, which we hope and believe are minor.

Jillian found a small bump on her head late last night, and this morning the doctor ordered a CAT scan. She thinks it's just some post-op swelling, but the scan was done so late today that it hasn't been read yet. Jilly says it's like a bruise--doesn't hurt unless you press on it.

Even less likely to be a genuine issue but much more distressing to Jilly is pain at the site of the PEG. She's been complaining about it all week and asks every doctor who walks in her door if they can remove the tube. This can be approved only by the doctor who put it in, and he keeps refusing, saying it needs six weeks, which would mean two and a half weeks more! Apparently scar tissue needs to form at the site to ward off damage from gastric juices (I may have this wrong; if there's a medical professional in the house, please go ahead and correct me). The thing is, PEGs are not supposed to be painful. A nuisance, maybe, but not painful. Dr. Kalva, having inspected it to rule out the possibility of infection, thinks perhaps there's a stitch close to the surface that is pulling and causing the pain. It looks as if tomorrow morning the aforementioned doctor who installed the PEG will be in to check it out, and Dr. Kalva has ordered either an abdominal scan (according to the night nurse) or an ultrasound (which is what the doctor told me earlier).

So we have come home rather nervous. Mostly we hope that Jilly gets a good night's sleep so she can better tolerate another test tomorrow; we asked the night nurse to dispense the authorized painkiller as soon as she could and advised her that Jilly refuses to use the call bell. We feel confident in this nurse's attentiveness.

Given these developments, we made only a little progress on our exit strategy. We appreciate the concern the staff has been demonstrating for our convenience, but our top concern is Jillian's recovery. Anything else is a detail we will work out.

Think good thoughts.

Ingrid